This “Lives in Process” piece illustrates the discipleship process in the life of a young man who is growing in Christ-like love for his wife. “This is the moment in the journey that I began to understand that biblical change—real transformation—is not merely from frustration to passivity. A restraint to communicate frustration may have been the first step in change, but it was not the destination. Biblical change is not a rearrangement of the situation but a transformation of the heart.”