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Crowds are scary.
Many of the stupid, foolish and sinful things we do involve a crowd, even if the crowd is just one or two other people. Examples:
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<li>Anytime I was in a car going way too fast, there were ‘other people’ in the car too.</li>
<li>The old college streaking phenomena—don’t ask.</li>
<li>Hazing, the cruel things that inductees are subjected to, would never be done apart from a group.</li>
<li>Angry youths throw rocks at police, which none of them would do if they were by themselves.</li>
<li>All early use of drugs or alcohol is crowd-induced.</li>
<li>Soldiers desecrate the dead body of an enemy combatant. Alone, it would have never happened, but together it did—and it was caught on film and they will be court-marshaled.</li>
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“My son, if sinners entice you, do not consent” (Pro.1:10).
It is as if sin and foolishness need only the slightest encouragement to break loose. Psychology 101 calls it the ‘risky shift’, in which individual opinions move in a more polarized and risky direction when in a group. It’s probably what lies at the heart of the housing market collapse. Somebody said, “The housing market is sure thing. Let’s make even more money by offering home loans to people who can’t really afford it. What could happen?&#8230;” And soon others followed&#8230; “Hey, they are doing it, it must be okay.”
We are not very good at imagining consequences to begin with. Now add another voice that accents the present thrill or gain and ignores what could happen next, and all of a sudden you are like a football team, hooting and hollering with excitement before the big game, totally in the moment and only in the moment.
So, when the behavior is exposed, and the question is asked, “What were you thinking?!” The answer is rightly, “I don’t know.”
If there is more going on in the mind, it might be a simple formula: the larger the crowd, the less the blame. If I make a foolish decision and get caught, I am to blame. But if I am with four friends, I only share in 20% of the blame, if 99, then only 1% of the blame. This is the kind of formula that can lead to crucifixions.
Yes, this is familiar ground. Peer-pressure revisited. Every wise person should be alert to it.
Three questions:
<ol>
<li>Are we alert to this human tendency, and can we find illustrations of it in our own lives? When we can’t see it, we are more vulnerable.</li>
<li>Do we consider consequences to our actions? And do we ask others to help us gauge consequences? Take a look at Proverbs. So many of the sayings invite us to look into the future and anticipate deleterious results.</li>
<li>Do we know that we appear before the Lord individually, not as part of a group? Share-the-blame is a myth. We live as if the spotlight were on us. We live as if everything we do were public.</li>
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Related resource: <a href="https://www.ccef.org/book/when-people-are-big-and-god-is-small-second-edition">When People Are Big and God Is Small (Second Edition)</a> by Ed Welch

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Related resource: <a href="https://www.ccef.org/book/when-people-are-big-and-god-is-small-second-edition">When People Are Big and God Is Small (Second Edition)</a> by Ed Welch

Ed is a faculty member and counselor at CCEF, where he has served since 1981. He holds a doctor of philosophy in counseling (neuropsychology) from the University of Utah and a master of divinity from Biblical Theological Seminary. Ed is a licensed psychologist and has been active in local church ministry for decades. He has written numerous books, including When People Are Big and God Is Small (P&amp;R Publishing, 1997), Shame Interrupted (New Growth Press, 2012), Side by Side (Crossway, 2015), and Created to Draw Near (Crossway, 2020).

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