Thriving in a Failure-to-Thrive Marriage

In this audio talk, Julie Lowe begins by acknowledging factors she won’t cover in the session, such as abuse and biblical grounds for divorce. She then explores how a spouse can thrive and live a godly life despite a strained marriage. Lowe begins by defining what a “failure-to-thrive” marriage entails and the challenges it poses to building connection. She discusses common temptations and reactions in difficult marriages, emphasizing how our expectations of mutuality in godly relationships can slowly shift into a demand for personal return. Over time, marriage can change from a focus on giving to an attitude of “what can I get in return for my love?” Lowe offers clear guidance for the future, urging a redefinition of hope and a focus on God’s character during difficult times. She shares several key principles that can help spouses reconnect and grow together.